Guest-Post: Spotting the Signs of Rare Childhood Illnesses

As a concerned parent, it’s difficult to know what to do if your child gets sick. While you don’t want to overreact, there is also the chance that your baby or toddler could be suffering from something a bit more serious than a slight fever.

When in doubt, it is always better to take your child to a doctor. Make sure to ask for a thorough check up and look for signs and symptoms beyond the common cold or flu that you may have missed. And in order to avoid the need medical solicitors later (and possibly save your child’s life) remember to ask questions during your child’s appointment. Not sure where to start? Here are some serious childhood illnesses that you may want to encourage your doctor to look for.

Meningitis. You may think that your child simply has a case of the flu when it’s actually meningitis because the signs are so similar. Both can induce nausea, loss of appetite, a fever and exhaustion. However, with meningitis, it is important to look for other less common symptoms, such as a stiff neck and a skin rash, in some cases. In babies under the age of two, you may also notice a knot on the head. This is actually caused by swelling of the brain.

Croup. This is another illness that begins with symptoms similar to those of a common cold. The primary difference with croup is a more intense cough that sounds like a combination of barking and wheezing. While the serious-sounding cough may be unnerving to a worried parent, the implications are rarely serious; a quick trip to the doctor’s office is usually enough to help your child breathe easier as they fight off the virus.

Respiratory syncytial virus. You may have never heard of this sickness before, but your child is actually more likely to get this than to suffer from the season flu virus. The onset can feel just like a cold or flu–complete with a stuffy nose, increased body temperature and a cough — but it can lead to a more serious conditions like pneumonia or bronchiolitis, a condition similar to bronchitis but that affects the bronchioles instead of the bronchi.

Scarlet fever. Sometimes, during a bout with strep throat, children can suddenly develop a red rash on the chest and abdomen. This development, known as scarlet fever, can have other symptoms, too. Sometimes, the person will also become red in the face or his or her tongue will turn white. While scarlet fever sounds serious–mainly due to its historical reputation as a fatal disease — a round of antibiotics can cure it quickly and easily.

Pertussis. This infection, more commonly known as whooping cough, has been less of a risk in the UK since vaccinations are offered to both expectant mothers and to children during their first few years of life. However, it is still possible to catch this bacterial infection in which the main symptom is a painful cough that can lead to shortness of breath.

Practical Maternity Clothes (Guest Post)

As a woman who has experienced pregnancy, I know only too well the changes that it brings to your body. Clearly the biggest change is to the stomach area and I remember looking forward to buying maternity trousers with the large elasticated and expandable section to fit over the bump. The first pair that I bought were so uncomfortable with a seam that pressed across where The Boy was lying. It took a while to find the right pair and these were from Vertbaudet. Once I found them, I bought another pair and they were my staple items throughout.

In this guest-post from Vertbaudet, they explain the importance of finding the right clothes to keep you comfortable, cool and fashionable during one of the most important phases of a pregnant woman's life.

Practical Maternity Clothes

During pregnancy, our bodies change shape and size in many ways. Of course we grow out, where our growing bump emerges gradually, but we also expand in other areas. Designers of maternity clothes know that women's bodies are different during pregnancy, and they adapt and shape them accordingly.

There is a huge amount of choice when it comes to maternity clothes, whether you seek smart professional wear for the office, fashionable and sophisticated dresses for special occasions or casual loose fitting garments for when you just want to collapse in a heap, they are all out there.

With so many options available to us, how do we tell one from the other? Well, if you are looking for maternity clothes that combine style, comfort and value, Vertbaudet is worth visiting.

Vertbaudet offers online and catalogue shopping so you can browse from the comfort of your own home, something expectant mothers will appreciate.

An extensive maternity underwear department kits you out with all you need for pregnancy and beyond. Great value multi-packs of maternity knickers are available in pretty shorty and brief styles and ultra-convenient disposable knickers come in six packs. Breastfeeding bras, T-shirts and vests are available in a range of practical and attractive designs for the ultimate in convenient feeding. Leggings and tights designed specifically for the pregnant form team well with softly tailored tunics and T shirts for a casual and relaxed look.

Getting a good nights' sleep during and after pregnancy can become a bit of a nightmare, so it is best to do all you can to make yourself comfortable. Vertbaudet maternity nightwear features a range of 'before and after' pyjamas and nightdresses designed to offer comfort and fit in all the right places.

So, that's the practical side of things covered, how about maternity clothes that flatter and make us feel fabulous? Take a look at the fluid and softly tailored trouser, top and hooded cardigan sets at Vertbaudet, with elegance and comfort combined, and at a great price too. Thoughtful details such as adjustable straps on the vest tops and yoga trousers with wide knit waistbands make these sets in ultra-soft stretch Jersey and elastane hard to resist.

For summer fun, Vertbaudet has clever convertible dresses in colourful prints. These flexible dresses in pure cotton voile have a wide smocked band which can be worn at the chest or tummy, making it a dress or skirt. Two outfits in one!

For when the weather cools down, you will need a coat or jacket to keep you and your bump warm. Softly tailored blouson style maternity jackets with drawstring waists and back slits to accommodate a growing tummy offer a casual solution to outdoor wear. Alternatively, for a more tailored and classic look, try the flared wool cloth maternity coat with double-breasted detailing and inverted pleats. For something a little different, why not try a poncho? The unstructured design of the poncho lends itself beautifully to the pregnant form, and Vertbaudet offer a fine example in soft camel coloured wool/acrylic. Perfect for those Autumnal days.

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Chick In A Basket (Guest Post)

The Boy and I (see I can be grammatically correct when needed!) love craft activities, and I am always on the look-out for new ideas. I was recently browsing the Internet looking for some coloured sand when I came across the Baker Ross site. I already knew about it through my teacher alter-ego but hadn't thought to look there before. I was pleasantly surprised to find a whole load of craft activities for Winter and Spring, and bought a whole load of craft materials that we're currently working our way through.

In this guest post from James Christie (who writes for Baker Ross), you'll find simple instructions on how to make a very cute Easter chick.

How children can craft a chick-in-a-basket

Easter isn’t far away but there is still time for kids to make some super Easter crafts. The cheerful Easter character baskets that this article will explain how to create, are fantastic gifts and look great when displayed at home or in the classroom.

Put the items mentioned below in your Easter shopping basket and you will be ready to begin.

  • 3D Easter Character Foam Kits – a pack of 4 currently (as of 8th March 2012) costs £3.80
  • Super Strong Multi-Purpose Silicone Glue – £3.98 for a pack of two and £10.50 for a pack of six
  • Mini Glue Dots – £2.99 for a box of 300

All these items are available from kids arts and crafts company Baker Ross and don’t forget to have a pair of children’s spring-loaded scissors to hand. This piece of equipment will make sure that kids can happily cut away with ease – you can get a pair for under a pound.

There are two designs in the kit and this article will concentrate on hatching a plan to make the chick-in-a-basket. Reading out the following instructions to your children might help them with this task.

Firstly, take the green-fringed strip of foam and the green circle and apply silicone glue around the rim of the circle. Press the fringing around it to create the basket (as below).

 

You will need to trim off any excess foam so that your basket has a neat perimeter.

While your basket’s glue is drying you can pick up the yellow egg shape and glue your chick’s orange webbed feet to the base.

Once the feet are in place, give the chick wings by gluing some on top.

Your chick is now ready to fly but how will it see? It’s time to stick the adhesive wiggle eyes near the dome of the yellow egg. I love the way the eyeballs wobble whenever the chick is moved!

After a little triangular orange beak is added, the chick is only missing one vital component – its feathers. So, take a big yellow feather and put it on the chick’s spine – it’s really ready to shake a tail feather now!

You might think the task is finished now and it almost is. It’s time to return your attention to the green basket; hopefully it’s dried by now. Inside your kit you will find three sheets of foam flowers with different colours on them. Pop these out of their sheets, peel off the back and adorn your basket with them. Don’t forget to press down firmly so they don’t fall off.

Lower your chick into its comfy basket home and stand back to admire this excellent Easter piece of art. The chick might well look a little lonely sitting in its basket on its own so why not make a bunny-in-a-basket to go with it?

Have a great Easter!

You can find all the Easter Craft Essentials your kids need at the Baker Ross site.

Here's an easy video tutorial of the process

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Guest-Post: Comments

Today's guest-post comes from the lovely Fay over at Glass Half-Full.

I was having a chat to someone the other day about comments, or in this case the lack of them on their posts.

I'm new to this blogging lark and I am just chuffed to bunnies when I take a look and see a figure which represents more people than are in my immediate family have looked at my page. I'm at the stage in my blogging hobby, that I'm just pleased I get posts out which seem to make sense and the odd person enjoys them. But it is pretty impressive when you see a post with a lot of comments on it!

Makes me wonder how many hits it must be getting, because I'm sure there is a 'golden ratio' number.

X amount of hits = Y percentage proportion of comments left

So if I wanted to grow my blog, is this something I should be aiming for rather than figures alone? Or is it simply a 'look at me, I've a lot comments, so I must be great at this' exercise?

The conversation got me thinking too, how do I know someone has enjoyed the post by looking at the stats. Did they just look at it, or was it actually read & understood? A bit like the difference between hearing and listening!

Is there a connection between me and the reader or is it a case of speed read and move on. Is that why some people care if there are comments or not? Is this a measure of someone actually reading it, and getting it…getting what we were trying to say, the message we were sending out into the bloggersphere?

Now, I just want to point out, I always try to add a comment on a blog, but sometimes its just not possible!

  1. I can't blumming sign in properly to validate something or other.
  2. I can't read the 'type this word in so we know you aren't a bot" safety feature.
  3. I haven't got the time.
  4. The iPad messes up with the settings and won't let me physically post it.
  5. I'm using my iPhone, its just too fiddly.
  6. I literally have nothing to say or add!

But the reasons for leaving a comment?

  1. They've triggered a memory, one which means a lot to me, and I want to share it with them.
  2. I feel they need some support, some virtual hugging and/or validation of the message.
  3. I feel incredibly strongly about the message or purpose of the blog, whether I am in agreement or not.
  4. I think I can maybe add something to the debate, a new angle or clever observation.
  5. I'm offering a possible solution to a problem
  6. Just a simple, 'Well done! I liked that!'

Reading through the two lists, I can see one is very task orientated, the other is more emotional.

So maybe this is one reason why some people care if comments are left or not. It's not only a possible validation exercise for peers; 'a lot of people read my blog and care enough to comment' but also the difference between listened to and being heard.

Do you agree or is my argument too simplistic? There has got to be lots of other reasons for comments being added or not or why we should or shouldn't be bothered by it. What do you think?

Can you see what I did there? Don't let me down!

Guest-Post: Subtitles are Educational too!

Guest-blogger Jo Berry is a film critic and mum of one who runs the website movies4kids.co.uk. The site has a database of over 1000 reviews of films aimed at kids, teens and families, and also reviews the latest cinema and DVD releases.

Until the birth of my son D in 2005, movies were my life. As a film critic, they are also my bread and butter, but I have always loved movies so much that they are a big part of who I am. I can remember my dad taking me to movies when I was little (the first was Lady And The Tramp, age five) and my mum sitting me down in front of the TV whenever there was a film starring one of her favourite actors – Steve McQueen, Paul Newman, William Holden – being shown. (I also remember her telling me that weepie Love Is Many Splendoured Thing had a happy ending so I would watch it with her, but that's a subject for a whole different blog, or perhaps a therapy session). Name a movie from the eighties when I was growing up and I probably have a memory linked to it – Ghostbusters (I nearly killed the mum in front who loudly opened a pack of Mr Kipling tarts during the film then asked each of her kids at the top of her voice what colour jam tart they wanted), An Officer And A Gentleman (the first 15 certificate film I sneaked into, aged 12), The Evil Dead (watched on video at a friend's house while another pal hid under a cushion), Batman (the first press screening of a movie I ever went to).

When I met my husband, we bonded over a love of Steve Martin, GoodFellas, Star Wars and big budget Hollywood movies; so much so that my dad's speech at our wedding was made up of movie titles (he finished by saying he knew that together we had found our 'field of dreams', at which point I started blubbing into my champagne). So it's not surprising that, whether he likes it or not, we're both passing our love of movies onto our son. Obviously in my line of work, this has been quite easy; film companies screen their movies to the press a few weeks before they open in cinemas, and if they have a family movie they show them to us on Sundays so we can bring our kids. By the time D was 18 months old I had taken him to his first screening (of Happy Feet) and showed him tons of DVDs at home that I thought he would like: Elmo In Grouchland, Thunderbirds and Cars becoming firm favourites. (He wouldn't watch Star Wars, though). He even loved The Iron Giant (based on the Ted Hughes book) so much that I had to write a 'sequel' one evening as he didn't understand why Hollywood hadn't ever made one.

Of course, there have been slip-ups along the way. I carefully started the DVD of Finding Nemo after the first scene in which Nemo's mummy and sibling eggs are gobbled up by a predator so three year old D wouldn't be traumatised… only for him to pick up the remote a few days later while I briefly was out of the room, select 'deleted scenes' (he has always been a whizz with TV remotes) and find a longer, even more upsetting version of the scene. Cue a week of bed time conversations in which I had to reassure him that his mummy wasn't going anywhere, and certainly wasn't going to be eaten by some nasty fishy.

More recently, he came out of a press screening of Kung Fu Panda 2 and loudly announced (in front of the PR handling the film) that it was 'the worst movie ever.' It isn't, of course (it's actually pretty good), but D had been scared of the bad guy peacock throughout, hence his reaction. (I have always told D that if he doesn't like a movie he should tell me so I can take him out of it, but during this one he had stayed silent because, he tells me, he wanted to know how it ended).

Cementing my reputation as an irresponsible mummy, I let D watch the first two Transformers movies on DVD despite being 12 certificate movies (I did vet them myself first). He loves the toys (what six-year-old boy doesn't?) and the violence in the films is robots smashing up other robots, so I thought it would be ok. I skipped a scene from the second one in which a woman turns into a robot with a snaking metallic tongue (really didn't want to explain that one to him) and decided that, although there are a couple of swear words in Transformers: Revenge Of The Fallen they are uttered so quickly they would pass him by. Oh no. A few weeks later, D comes home with a 'comic book' he has drawn in class (luckily during a wet lunchtime, rather than a piece of work seen by his teacher). This collection of stick images with speech bubbles including one page of transformer Bumblebee under attack, a predicament that has him yelling "SHIT!" in his speech bubble. Apparently D had once turned the subtitles on for a few minutes while watching the movie, and in doing so had learnt a new word (credit to him – he did spell it correctly).

Needless to say, I never leave him alone with anything more controversial than Toy Story in the DVD now. I know in a few years time we'll be arguing over whether he's old enough to watch Reservoir Dogs or The Godfather, so in the meantime I want to enjoy his childhood and his love of movies featuring animals that talk (Zookeeper had him in stitches), cars that can fly (Cars 2) and tank engines named Thomas. And maybe one day, in the not too distant future, D will finally let me and his daddy show him the classic that is Star Wars

Where are we going wrong? (Guest Post)

The lovely Sabina at DeepInMummyMatters contacted me to ask if I would like to host a post for her. Not only was I incredibly honoured, but the content is quite relevant for me as a teacher. I hope that you'll be able to come up with some suggestions to help her.

Where are we going wrong?

Do you ever get the feeling that you’re failing as a parent?  On the whole I’ve always thought that me and Hubby make pretty good parents, we give our children lots of love and attention, we play with them, we make sure that at weekends we always do something which is specifically for the children (e.g. swimming, play centre or a walk in the park).  We try to always be there to listen if they need to talk and we try our hardest to spread our time fairly amongst the children but over recent months/years with Curly and weeks with Little Bean I’m starting to question whether we really are doing a good job or not.  This post is in relation to Curly . . .

Curly is 9 years old and my husband’s son from his first marriage.  Hubby and Curly’s Mum split up shortly before Curly’s 2nd birthday.  When Curly was about 30 months I began a relationship with his dad and his mum began a relationship with her now husband.  Initially we all thought that Curly had coped very well with the breakup, in each of the relationships his mum and dad introduced their respective partner’s to him gradually over time and he has always been very accepting of both of us.  Everything seemed to be progressing with Curly nicely until his second year at primary school and since then it has got progressively worse.

I know every parent likes to think that their child is bright, but seriously Curly is a very bright little boy, he always comes out top of his class with results and has been moved into the higher capabilities group for maths but every year we get the same response from his teachers; he’s disruptive in class and hard to motivate.  Oh we know that well enough ourselves.  Trying to get him to do something for you is like trying to get blood out of a stone.  We have tried all manner of reward charts, naughty steps etc but nothing works with him.

Last year at School, Hubby and Curly’s mum were asked to go into school to see the Headmaster because his teacher was saying that she could no longer cope with having him in her class, he was too disruptive.  At the same time we were constantly being told by Curly that he was being bullied at school by a group of boys.  This is where it gets difficult: when we spoke to the school about the bullying they said that it was just good old horseplay and Curly was being oversensitive, basically he needed to ‘man up’ a bit.  We started taking him to kick-boxing classes to try to give him confidence and discipline but soon the teacher there was also saying that he was ‘away with the fairies’ and too disruptive in class, he was also starting to get very lippy.  Then Curly decided he didn’t want to do kick-boxing anymore.

Yesterday, we had a new issue with him.  When my MiL picked him up from school, he was stopped by his form teacher to say that he needed to have a meeting with Curly’s mum and dad because he wasn’t prepared to have him in his class anymore.  He simply couldn’t handle his behaviour anymore and basically wasn’t prepared to either.  After a little coaxing, Curly opened up to his nan and said that he wasn’t happy at school.  He then proceeded to roll up his shirt sleeve and show his nan a bruise on his arm and said that was where his teacher had grabbed his arm in class and reprimanded him in front of his class mates!!!  Now, he has been known to tell fibs before so it was drummed into him what a serious accusation this was to make and that he could ruin his teacher’s life if he was telling fibs again.  He swore that we could ask his classmates as they all saw it happen.

This morning my husband and Curly’s mum attended the school for a meeting and it has been agreed that Curly should see an Educational Psychologist for assessment.  They will also speak with Curly’s form teacher to ascertain his side of the story on what happened yesterday.

We were also told by his mum that she has been having an horrendous time with him over the last few weeks and his behaviour has been unmanageable, yet we have had no problems at all?  His mum unfortunately has to work long hours and so he spends a lot of time at his nan and grandad’s house or upstairs in his bedroom whilst his stepdad cooks tea.

His maths teacher said that he has worked closely with Curly for the last few years and describes him as an ‘over-sensitive, very sad and lonely individual . . .’ which as a parent is heartbreaking to hear.

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Hubby and I sat down with him last night and tried talking with him, within seconds he broke down into sobs and hid his face in his hands.  He said that he didn’t want to talk but after a little bit of TLC he opened up and said that it was all school.  He was fed up of being picked on and hated it in his class.  Sadly for Curly he has suffered with warts on his hand for years and we have tried many treatments but to no avail.  He said that the other children call him “Germy” and touch him then wipe their hands on others saying they have got his germs now.  Other than that they shorten his surname into a nickname (which isn’t bad at all – for example, if he was Curly Brown they would call him Brownie) but he gets upset by this.  We’ve explained that this is nothing to worry about but he doesn’t like it.  If we go to a park and other children are playing he will get very upset if the other children don’t include him in their games and say that no-one likes him.

How do we help him with his self-esteem issues and can anyone recommend a good cure for warts????

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